"Hindsight only provides clarity when the angle is at the right degree, for if you focus on effect and neglect the cause, your studying the flower to understand the seed. One causes the other and not the other way around. Identify where you slipped instead of where you fell to the ground. "
When trying to reflect on where you went wrong, be sure to explore all the angles. For many times we will stop at the first perspective and constantly construct game plans that fail because, in reality, they are being executed on the wrong plays. When you are honest with yourself about your behavior and consider all the possibilities as to why a situation occurred the way it did, you will find the real reason for your regret in judgement.